Darlene Cates


Actor

About

Also Known As
Rita Darlene Guthrie
Birth Place
Borger, Texas, USA
Born
December 13, 1947

Biography

Rotund character player, who made her feature acting debut as the 500 pound couch-bound mother of a dysfunctional family in Lasse Hallstrom's "What's Eating Gilbert Grape" (1993). Cates came to acting after screenwriter Peter Hedges (who also wrote the novel on which the film is based), saw her appearance on an episode of "Sally Jessy Raphael" on extremely overweight people. Cates brough...

Family & Companions

Robert Cates
Husband
Postal worker, former US Marine. Met when she was only 14; lied and told him she was 17; ten years her senior; married on January 11, 1963; served two tours of duty in Vietman in the mid- to late 1960s.

Biography

Rotund character player, who made her feature acting debut as the 500 pound couch-bound mother of a dysfunctional family in Lasse Hallstrom's "What's Eating Gilbert Grape" (1993). Cates came to acting after screenwriter Peter Hedges (who also wrote the novel on which the film is based), saw her appearance on an episode of "Sally Jessy Raphael" on extremely overweight people. Cates brought a natural charm and warmth to the role that could have otherwise been merely grotesque. She received warm notices from critics and went on to make occasional guest appearances on TV in shows like "Picket Fences" and "Touched By an Angel."

Life Events

1963

Moved to Tustin, California after marriage

1964

When husband, who was still in the Marines, was assigned to a post in Japan, moved back to Texas

1976

Finally settled in Mesquite, Texas after husband left the military

1984

Underwent surgical procedure of having stomach stapled in effort to lose excess weight

1986

Remained bedridden for two years due to a pelvic infection caused by a Dalkon Shield

1991

Emerged from her house after five years in reclusion to appear on a "Sally Jessy Raphael Show" segment about extremely overweight people

1993

Feature acting debut, "What's Eating Gilbert Grape", playing Gilbert's mother

1994

Guest starred on an episode of "Picket Fences" (CBS)

Family

Truman M Guthrie
Father
Born c. 1921; married Cates' mother on December 1, 1946; divorced in 1960.
Dorothy Ann Guthrie
Mother
Born c. 1927; married Cates' father on December 1, 1946; divorced in 1960; remarried to an abusive man.
Sam Madison Guthrie
Brother
Born on September 3, 1952.
Jim
Half-Brother
Born in November 1965.
Johnny
Half-Brother
Born in March 1968.
Sheri Ann Cates
Daughter
Born two months prematurely on January 4, 1966 in North Carolina; married David Morgan in 1992; has two sons, Daniel and Jesse.
Mark Cates
Son
Born in October 1967 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.
Christopher Cates
Son
Born in 1971 in Texas; married with two sons.

Companions

Robert Cates
Husband
Postal worker, former US Marine. Met when she was only 14; lied and told him she was 17; ten years her senior; married on January 11, 1963; served two tours of duty in Vietman in the mid- to late 1960s.

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